Thursday, July 12, 2012

H is for Harness


Here we are at Grandma's House, and just squeaking in for the Alphabe-Thursday letter H through the eyes of the child.

In unfamiliar territory it took a while to think of a word that starts with H, but the one she arrived at is very fitting in a sweet and sad kind of way. It used to be, you see, that a big part of the thrill of going to Grandma's House was getting to see Grandma's dog. Grandma's rambunctious, rascally, over-excitable, but beautiful, brindled boxer. Our children viewed McKenzie as sort of a long-distance pet. We have no pets of our own, and the fun of walking, feeding, and playing with Grandma's dog never got old (we went Home before that ever happened.) Sadly, McKenzie died about six months ago, somewhat suddenly though not unexpectedly. It has been very sad for Grandma, who misses her constant companion, and a great loss for the children as well.

Grandma is not quite up to the task of taking on another pet (though she would if we didn't put our foot down) and so there is a great void now at Grandma's House.

Today when asked for a word starting with H, the child thought for a long time, and then said, "Harness - McKenzie's Harness that we used to walk her," then promptly went to the closet and found it in its usual handy hanging spot. Luckily, the child had also brought (400 miles, in the van) our large stuffed dog which was more than Happy to model the Harness. Then I realized that she probably brought this dog to try to fill the void. Even after I snapped this photo she "walked" the dog around the house, much to our amusement.

In loving memory of sweet McKenzie, and all pets everywhere who have brought us so much joy.

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Jenny Matlock

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Aww! We lost our white boxer, Blue, 5 years ago and we are STILL not over it yet!

*Visiting from Mrs, Jenny's!
1 reply · active 662 weeks ago
Very sorry for your loss, Kerri. Was there something red, too, so that Blue covered all of the patriotic colors? A red collar perhaps? Pets are missed permanently I think. I still miss the dog that was mostly mine when I was growing up, and she died before my kids were born. Pets are just special that way.
sweet but sad story. I like that she has that stuffed dog, it certainly is cute but nothing could replace the real thing.

hope you have a great day.
1 reply · active 662 weeks ago
No - nothing can replace a pet, that's for sure, but she does enjoy pretending with her stuffie.
What a sweet story. Ah, through the eyes and out of the mouths of babes. :)
1 reply · active 662 weeks ago
Thanks, Anita.
A lovely story. I lost my cat Boots March 16th this year. It is so hard without him!
1 reply · active 662 weeks ago
A recent loss, Anne, I'm very sorry for you. I cannot handle cats, but I enjoy other people's cats and know they are loved as much as dogs. May you find peace and healing.
Aw! Sweet memories of the joy and anticipation of caring and loving McKenzie on visits.

Blessings & Aloha!
(still catching up on H posts :o) Hope you get a chance to stop by).
1 reply · active 662 weeks ago
I'm a bit behind, too, Maria, but will try to stop in and see what loveliness you have created this week! Thanks for coming by!
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Jenny Matlock · 661 weeks ago

I'm sorry for Grandmas loss. It's too bad she can't find a rescue dog that is used to older folks. I bet that would help the lonely.

Your daughter is mighty creative to put the harness on your stuffed pet!

Thank you for sharing her creative happiness with us!

And thanks for linking to the letter 'H'.

A+

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